婚礼歌手1998

亚当·桑德勒和德鲁·巴利摩尔1998年的初次合作，因对《初恋五十次》印象良好，故而一直想看。亚当·桑德勒那时看上去还想走英俊小生路线，巴利摩尔不好看，胜在甜美可爱。情节，反正就是浪漫轻喜剧，没有特别好看也没有特别不好看。唯一不明白的是，为什么1998年的电影看上去像80年代的影片，是否电影公司压箱底作品被翻出来上映呢？不知道。

     看到这部片的最后，心里一下失望到极点。那首动听的歌，那个幸福的吻，那些陶醉的笑容却在最后给我的心狠狠地泼了一盆冷水。
  “和你一起变老”这句歌词来得太简单太迅速了吧。罗比和琳达青梅竹马的痴情，洛伦与茱莉亚一起四年的感情就在一瞬间破裂粉碎，而且都在最关键的结婚时刻。然后琳达和罗比顺理成章地在众人的支持和帮助下直接走进了婚姻殿堂！我没有被他们美好的结局而感动，或许是我的浪漫细胞太少了，又或者我太天真了，一直相信爱情没有那么容易破碎，特别是一起多年的情感。我实在接受不了罗比在和琳达分手后唱出那首撕心的歌曲后立刻对琳达产生了深厚的爱意，那么他是真痴情还是假痴情呢？要知道，他唱那首歌时，连最现实的与罗比抢饭碗的另一个婚礼歌手都躲在帘子后面说他疯了。这感情真的可以在这么短时间内彻底消逝，这痛苦真的可以在这么短时间内完全抚平？而琳达在本该和洛伦结婚的日子却与罗比结成夫妇，这会不会太愕然了。不过，或许这就是电影，这就是完美的爱情喜剧。只是换一个角度，关注起那些配角的时候便发现现实还在。
    最喜欢看到的是那个满脸皱纹，瘦骨嶙峋的老奶奶露西，她太可爱了！上歌唱课，练哑铃，唱hip-hop，讲她的婚前性行为，拿罗比开玩笑......每次她的出现都让我那样舒服开心。因为她的开朗活泼，因为她的热情可爱，因为她的专一痴情。结婚50年了，她还是那么认真的用肉丸请罗比给她上课教她唱歌，好让她能在结婚50周年纪念日的时候一展歌喉，就为让她的老伴知道她依然如此地深爱他。这是整部片最让我感动之处了。永恒而忠贞的爱情在那深情的歌声，唯美的歌词，脉脉含情的牵手诠释得淋漓尽致，让人陶醉。
     导演大概极力想塑造永恒纯洁爱情的浪漫美好。却在开始和结局之处露出了让人不解的矛盾：究竟爱情是像薄纱一样不堪一击还是可以永恒而美好？

平凡人的生活总有种种不如意，所幸总有否极泰来的时刻，蓦然回首便会发现一直陪伴在身边的知己才是自己的Mr. Right，有情人终成眷属地欢喜收场。
对这样的“小幸福”电影不须苛求太多，只要电影结束时满心温暖甜蜜便算合格了。The Wedding Singer显然达到了这样的要求，虽然影片末尾在飞机上深情献唱的情节让人觉得有点眼熟又老土，但还是忍不住狠狠感动了一把，bs我自己……
其实喜欢这部影片的主要原因还是因为喜欢男女主角。 Adam Sandler是为数不多长得不帅还能把我这个色女迷得七荤八素的男演员，他总是扮演傻得冒泡又可爱得冒泡泡的人物：笨拙、羞涩、质朴、善良，每次看到他憨憨的笑容都有点小小心动，难道我有郭靖情结？？？
至于Drew Barrymore更是我的all time NO.1,爱死了她如阳光下雏菊般的笑容，草莓般甜美的面容和丰盈柔媚的身材。因为她在影片中的造型，我多年来一直在找那样一条小碎花的及膝连衣裙....

You'll know when you meet the right girl,because it's not about how you feel about her,it's how she makes you feel about yourself.

   After Robbie was abadoned by Linda at the wedding,he laid in the bed in the basement,and he said to Sammy:"I don't have anything to offer."
   Then he met Julia.He finally got something to offer to that girl.Actually,Robbie was helping other people in town all the time.He is a wedding singer,who bring joy to guests;He has a dream as a rock star and is talented at writting songs.
   He is an orphan.Mom and Daddy left at ten.He has been hurt.But he is the one who always make other people happy.I think that's noble. Many people who got hurt grow to be cynical and defended,self-involved,and lose faith in love. Robbie thinks in a positive way,and he still hold hope for true love,before the wedding day.He got mad,sad,felt deeply betrayed,and began to doubt himeself as a wedding singer and even a helper without any payment. We know how much love can hurt."Take an instance,me." When Robbie sang that angry song"I used to love but it was a joke and I want a bullet shot in my head"in the hall in front of Julia,I think that's the moment Julia fell in love with him.So did I.I usually into guys with hurt and a high-esteem.I guess that's the self-rescue part,you will cure by rescuing somebody else hurting. Robbie met Julia,who looked him in the eye that we all read the message"You are so special to me".And Robbie went to pursue Julia at the last moment.
   I think that's the difference between men and women.When a man get hurt,he will move to save another girl in need,so as to cure himself and felt his worth once more.But when a woman gets hurt,she wouldn't get cure by loving another man,c'z that's not appropriate for a moman to be active and take into the" rescuer" role.She is espected to stay there in the blue and wait someone to show up and save her. It's getting helpless.And I hate myself.Anyway,Julia is not the girl like me.I won't let my life depend on someone else to save me,which by the way,romance only happens in the movie.
   I'm not Julia,and I can't be Robbie who meets Julia and be treasured and he earned his welfare by taking some moves.He is a man.That's what man should do.I don't know if I ever gonna meet some guy who is attracted by my loneliness and misery because there's anything else I can offer,to the opposite sex. I have a kind of pretty face,and a not so perfect body,a great listen when I concentrate,a hard-working student but that ambitiousness is not appreciated for most men. I learned self-doubt after the hurt by love,and become someone who is not me.And now I don't like the way I am.I had a fierce fight in the inner world every moment in the past few days.I even despise myself for thinking so negtively.Is there anyone who can understand the complicated contradiction I've been suffering?
   You might disgrace me but I'm the one losing faith in true love.I believe there's true love,I just don't believe that would happen on me.I'm also cursed for not helping other people,but I got my own ways to get out,by pulling myself higher and higher.A tough way,but at least it works some time.It isn't working now,and I'm back to that needy,desperate coward again.Hi me,all I'm thinking is that I don't deserve to have a guy to treasure me,looking me in the eye like saying"You are the most beautiful thing in the world.",someone who holds me and say"everything will be allright." I would like to do anything for him,too.But no,there's none,all me.I'm a loser.That's what they called. If love was red,I must be color-blind.
   There is tons of great speech you can throw on me,like"if you try you will find",or "don't feel inferior,you are not that bad",or"be yourself and good things will follow"...that doesn't help really.
    I'm going to live,whatever.Whether to success or lose in the end,it won't improve anything to self-esteem.I still gonna to abase myself for such struggle in vain.For not feeling confident in prior,for having so much contrary thoughts in head.That's me,and that's not cool.
    Perfectism,they call it.It rules all over me.Very mean superego.Mother never loved her much and daddy never kept in touch,that's why she shies away from human affection.
    I'm the kid in emptiness,like Robbie.He finds away by writting songs and helping people.I find my way lifting up.We are both innocent children abandoned by parents.Why do they do that to us? I know I'm not the only one,and there are more even worse. The absense of parents definitely effects on children's development,and I don't know how many of them has made a way out.I still went back to the homeless little girl sometimes.
    Can I help ? Maybe some day I will.I will.
Be careful,don't be hurt by love.But sometimes it's just destiny.You can't run off,it will chase you.Eat you in and out.
    "I'm so in love with you."Wish someday I could say that.Wish I have the strength to make it till that day.

终于看完了《婚礼歌手》发现自己还是热衷于爱情喜剧的~热衷于那种像是品尝奶糖一般温馨甜蜜的感觉~以前听闻我们adam是很厉害的创作歌手 今天终于见识到了~当他在飞机上弹着吉他为爱人献唱时 我已经哭的一塌糊涂了~只因这份爱情太迷人太完美~~自己又一次被打动 心脏加速跳动难以平息了~嘎嘎

~当我在10个月前开始疯狂的寻找他的电影时 我就知道我被他深深吸引了~注定摆脱不了他的魅力 发下花痴吧 世间怎会有如此可爱的男人......

关于内容我不愿多说 如果你决定看这部电影 记住 带上你一颗感伤的心 对真爱的一片赤诚~

那么便可以深刻的感受音乐与爱情的水乳交融~

片尾 我们的男主角唱了一首歌 名字应该叫做“grow old with you ”

歌曲太美太美~~ SO 牢记它的旋律 时常挂在嘴边 轻声哼唱

I wanna make you smile whenever you're sad
当你忧伤时候我要让你欢笑


Carry you around when your arthritis is bad
当你关节痛时我会带你到处走走


All I wanna do
我想要的只是


is grow old with you
和你一起慢慢变老


I'll get you medicine
when you tummy aches
当你肚子痛时我会为你拿药


Build you a fire if the furnace breaks
如果壁炉坏了我会做个新的


Oh It could be so nice growing old with you
哦~和你一起慢慢变老该是多么美妙


I'll miss you kiss you
我会想念你,亲吻你


Give you my coat when you are cold
你冷的时候我会将我的外套给你


I’ll need you feed you
需要你,满足你


Even let ya hold the remote control
甚至受你摆布...遥控...


So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink
让我在厨房的水槽里洗盘子


Put you to bed if you’ve had too much to drink
当你喝得太多时把你放到床上


I could be the man who grows old with you
我可以成为与你携老的男人


I wanna grow old with you
和你一起慢慢变老